We’re getting married

Jam Tony

Sunday, November 22, 2026Sol House Bangkok

Jam and Tony walking hand in hand across a lawn, both in white, laughing at each other, an ivy-covered stone lodge behind them

We start at 8:00 in the morning

We’re getting married on November 22, 2026 in Bangkok, and we’d love everyone to celebrate the day with us.

It’s a morning wedding at Sol House Bangkok in Ladprao, near Jam’s family. Tea is poured at 9:09, the vows are at 11:38, lunch follows, and the whole celebration fits inside one bright morning. If you’ve been waiting for a reason to visit this side of the world, let this be it :)

Your RSVP lives on the personal link we sent you. Everything else is right here.

The schedule

How the morning will unfold

8:00

Welcome & refreshments

Coffee, tea, and a light breakfast will be waiting while everyone arrives and settles in.

9:09

Tea ceremony

We will serve tea to the elders of both families, receive their blessings, and honor the Chinese and Thai traditions shared by our families. Everyone is warmly invited to join us, and seating will be provided for all guests.

9:30

Photos & mingling

Wander, relax, mingle, and join us for photos. There’s also a photo booth where you can take your own and print them to take home.

11:38

The vows

Thai weddings choose auspicious minutes for the moments that matter, which is why tea is poured at 9:09 and the vows begin at 11:38. Please be in your seats by 11:30.

12:00

Reception

Lunch, toasts, and two unhurried hours together. The celebration ends at 2:00 PM.

What to wear

We’re asking everyone to dress formally—think suits and lightweight dresses—since there will be a lot of photos. Everything is indoors, so you won’t be out in the heat. These are the wedding’s colors:

Cream
Dusty rose
Soft Moss
Warm brown

You don’t need to match them exactly.

Late November is Bangkok’s gentlest weather — mornings around 24°C/75°F, reaching 32°C/89°F at midday.

The two of us

We met in Vancouver on Christmas Eve, 2019

Six years and two cities later, we’re getting married. These photographs were taken in Vancouver, where everything began, and in a lupine field an hour outside Seattle, where we live now.

Vancouver12 . 24 . 19
Seattletoday
Bangkok11 . 22 . 26

Vancouver · where we met

Jam and Tony touching noses beneath a dark stone archway, mountains and water beyond
Stanley Park, Vancouver
Tony holding a white bouquet with Jam on his arm at Coal Harbour, both looking out over the water with the downtown Vancouver skyline behind
Vancouver skyline
Smiling at each other on a wooden bench under cherry blossoms by the water
Cherry blossom season
Standing together beside their white car, bouquet in hand, the red-topped Brockton Point lighthouse and the North Shore mountains behind
Brockton Point
Tony kissing Jam on the cheek among sword ferns and cedars, Jam holding a white bouquet
Under the cedars

Seattle · now

Tony twirling Jam through a field of purple lupine beneath a pale overcast sky
The lupine field, an hour from home
Jam and Tony sitting across a picnic basket in the lupine field, surrounded by peaches and white tulips
A kiss on the cheek while holding up an instax camera with their photo in it
Proof
Laughing together over a peach at their picnic in the lupine field
Jam hugging Tony from behind, oolong tea and peaches on the table

Peace Arch Park, 2021

The Canada–US border was closed in 2021. Jam was in Vancouver, Tony was in Seattle, and the park sits on the line between them, so we went eight times between May and July. Later that year Tony moved to Vancouver.

  • Jam and Tony under a blue pop-up tent on a sunlit lawn, other tents pitched across the grass around them
    May. We brought a tent. So did everyone else.
  • Jam and Tony sitting close together inside the blue tent, both grinning at the camera
    A week later, same tent.
  • Tony striking a dramatic pose under a wooden sign reading USA CANADA BORDER, an orange boundary marker beside him
    June. Tony was deep in JoJo's Bizarre Adventure at the time.
  • A screenshot of a video call at 9:18pm: Tony in the dark on the top half, and below him Jam waving with both hands, her video broken into large coloured blocks
    The weeks in between looked like this.
  • A screenshot of a video call at 12:34am: Tony lying in bed on the top half, and the bottom half a blank blue panel with a loading spinner where Jam's video should be
    Jam's wifi was not good.
  • Jam and Tony lying side by side inside an orange tent, Jam laughing, both in sunglasses
    July 4th, the seventh time. We stayed until it got dark.
Jam leading Tony by the hand through a field of purple lupine under an overcast sky

Why Bangkok

The wedding is in Ladprao, near Jam’s family

It’s a residential corner of Bangkok, ten minutes from Chatuchak market and a world away from the tourist trail. Many of you are traveling a long way to be with us, and we don’t take that lightly.

So we gathered everything you’ll need in one place: which airport to choose, how taxis work, what to wear, and where to eat.

Read the Bangkok notes

We hope you can join us

Your personal invitation has your RSVP and any details meant specifically for you.

Jam & Tony — November 22, 2026 — Bangkok