Before the day
Questions
The things people ask us most. If we’ve missed something, please just write — we would much rather answer twice than leave you wondering.
How do I get to SOL House on the day?
Take a Grab door to door. The venue is on Soi Ladprao 38, about ten minutes from the Lat Phrao MRT station if you’d rather take the train and hop a short ride. Traffic is light on Sunday mornings, but leave some buffer anyway.
What should I wear to the wedding?
Please dress formally, because there will be a lot of photos. We’ll be indoors the whole time, so you don’t have to dress around the heat. Formal doesn’t mean heavy, so bring your lightest option, and if you’re flying, one that packs well. No black tie. Our colors are cream, sage green, dusty rose, and warm brown.
You don’t need to match them exactly.
Should we bring a gift?
Please don’t feel you need to. Most of you are crossing an ocean to be with us, and that is the gift. If giving something would make the day feel complete for you, both our families follow the envelope tradition — a card with a small cash gift, handed to us on the morning, and truly optional.
Is there a registry?
No registry. We live in Seattle, so anything boxed would have to fly home across the Pacific with us. We’d rather you spend that money on a good Bangkok dinner.
Who do I ask when I’m confused?
Email us at hello@jamandtony.com, or leave a note when you RSVP — the message box is there whether you’re coming or not. We’ll get back to you.
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